Do you get the Message?

I'll make this little post here about the messages of some of my favorite bands. This messages are often misinterpreted and I absolutely HATE it and I don't hate much.

Black Veil Brides

Listen to them here!

and

Blood On The Dance Floor

Listen to them here!

Their message is to just be yourself and not to let what others think of you affect you and who you are. Basically they are anti bullying bands. They have completely different sounds and styles and with that different fans. Yet they are prosecuted all the same. People who don't pay attention think they are "gay" or "some little girly bands" Which is belittling them and their talents and it is WRONG! Their parents obviously didn't teach them respect!

And Black Veil Brides is also, all to often associated with satanists and bad influences. I can honestly say I don't at all understand that because if you've ever heard any of their songs they support people who are being bullied and remind them that they are not alone. They NEVER do anything satanic they don't tell listeners to kill or do anything really stupid just to make their own choices and not let anyone stop them from reaching their goals or being happy. Now really, what is wrong with that?!

Blood on the Dance Floor is often called vulgar and inappropriate but they just love to have fun. Their songs are upbeat and make people want to get up and dance and have a great time and that wasn't on accident. They want their fans to be happy, they love their fans and have said so many times. They also send a message like Black Veil Brides that reminds their fans that they are not alone and that they will be their for them the best they can.

Measuring Life

I hate when older people will speak to you like you know nothing. Like their plethora of knowledge highly exceeds your own when in reality they don't know just how much that person they are speaking down to has went through through out the trials of their life. Personally I know people my age that people don't really take seriously that they really should. I don't want to put anyone else's personal life out there but I'll use my self as an example. People think I don't know what its like to lose someone because no one very close to me has died quite yet. I understand that yes it is something traumatic and hard to go through but personally I think I have been through worse. I'm not saying it is as sad or should be pitied but I'm just saying that it is if not more, just as emotionally scarring to have a parent completely abandon you. Their argument is that I can still look that parent up and find him but honestly, at least the person you lost didn't chose to go, they didn't abandon you simply because they didn't want you. If my father died, I wouldn't even know that he had passed so he is as out of my life, as someone who had died would be. 
Then there is this false thought process that plays out years instead of experiences. You could be a million but have experienced little to no change and never had to cope with much in life compared to a teenager who's parent walked out on them,who's parent had a significant other that abused them and that teenager, as a child, feared for their life. The teenager could have been neglected and forced to care for their younger siblings, or they could have no parents at all and had to bare life always going from foster home to foster home until someone finally adopted them. 

What I'm trying to say is that older people need to stop assuming that they have been through more or are more intelligent then someone younger than them. Life isn't measured in years it is measured in your experiences and overall the contents of your life!

School

I know I've been gone for a while, honestly its a school thing. I hate school, well besides the learning that is, but I have to go and I have to graduate. The only thing that really concerns me is what I'm going to do after I'm done with school. I just don't know where I'll go or what I'll do. Its kind of a sinking feeling. Sure I'm not stupid but I'm no genius either. I want to start planning my future but I just don't know where to being. I don't know how adults did it. I guess its time to ask my mom some questions. After her boyfriend leaves of course. BLEH!

I know this was probably boring and I apologize, I just hope I'm not the only one stressing about this. Everyone else in my school either has everything planned or they don't care... Well at least if you're reading this and are going through this, you know you aren't alone. You are never alone ♥