Dahvie Vanity

Okay so here is where I will tell you what I know about Dahvie Vanity from the band Blood on the Dance Floor! Okay so his full/real name is Jesus Dahvie Torres. His parents are from Puerto Rico but he was born in Fort Bragg, North Carolina. Though he was born in North Carolina he was raised in Florida.Growing up he was bullied and called fat and so he let that hate inspire him and he worked out and became who his is now because of it. That is one reason he has the saying, let the haters hate or what ever it may be. He teaches his audience not to listen to what people say or to turn the negative comments into productive criticism like he did when he was younger. His parents were also in the Military. His eyes are hazel green and he is 5'7"(5 feet, 7 inches). Oh and he was born September 5th, so if you want to give him a gift or something. On top all that his girlfriend died and so in honor of her he made the song Believe. It is an amazing song and it makes me want to cry especially knowing the story behind the whole thing. Oh and a random fact: He likes Chicken... A lot apparently. :3 I found this all... well almost all on a video but I don't quite remember how to find it so I'm afraid I can't link it here. 

Anyway! Thank you for reading! ♥

Writers Block?

I know ALL writers, well all of the ones that I know hate writers block. I do too but I don't know if what I get is writers block exactly. I just get bored with writing it. I mean I feel like I can write more but I just have no desire to because my brain feels fried. I don't think that is exactly writers block I think that is just laziness. Though saying UGH I can't think of what to write! I have laziness. Well that just sounds way less professional. I think I'll call it burn out... or Brain melt. Yeah brain melt sounds much more like what it feels to me. Maybe that's just me though. I may be the only one to get brain melt. Seeing as I named it I'm sure other people call it different things if they do have it. Mostly because the name I chose sucked. Anyway I was writing a story well actually one then I melted. After that I started another one. Neither are finished but I hope to finish one of them or preferably both. Well what do you guys think of putting my stories on my blog? Is that a bad idea? I don't really know...

BOTDF Mom

Okay so I'm a big Blood on the Dance Floor fan and so I watch a lot of things about them. I watched one video and found the most amazing comment about BOTDF being banned or kicked out of the warped tour... Here it is "I am a mother of a 15 year old who attended Warp Tour with her I love BOTDF. Where can I sign a petition for the band to stay on tour? I would love to know why these parents are allowed to drop off their 11 year old children anywhere let alone a concert! In most states you cannot even leave them home alone! I bet those girls weren't being so innocent that day and got busted or scared so they now have a story at someone else expense! my best wishes to BOTDF .....Jess's Mom" I thought it was the most amazing thing in the world. Rarely ever do you see a mother stick up for her child's music and support their musical interest. Heck my mom doesn't really support much that I do. She is to close minded and set in her ways but this mom was totally open to her daughter's interests. I would love a mom like that. Some people may find it embarrassing but let me tell you I'd do anything to have a mom that was that way. So Jess you are one lucky girl. Anyway I just thought that was absolutely amazing! I thought I'd share it with everyone and maybe it is something moms can learn from. As long as you're open to things like this I think you and your child will have a better relationship. The most you can do is try and my advice is to try because like I said if I had a mom like that I think I'd be in heaven. I wouldn't mind going to any concert with my mom as long as she liked it with me. Maybe that is just me though? Well I don't think it is.

What lies Beneath the Surface

Many people judge others on things as simple as their outer appearance or how they may dress. In reality how people dress and who they really are have nothing to do with each other. I have seen people that scare me and I would typically expect them to be rude or scary. When in reality they were the sweetest person in the world. For example a Youtuber named Blake Bliss. If I just simply saw him I would think he was going to be rude and scary. I think everyone's mind just immediately processes people a certain way. There isn't much you can do about that itself but you can give these people who may look unpleasant the benefit of the doubt. Using Blake as an example again Blake Bliss is the most kind, gentle, caring person I have ever seen on youtube. He literally cares about all of the people that watch his videos. I love his personality so much and I have never even met him. The point is the people that you wouldn't normally talk to because they may seem a little different are sometimes the most amazing people to be around. You never really know until you actually meet ans talk to them. That goes for the other way around as well. You may think, wow this guy/girl looks amazing but in reality they could be so rude and obnoxious. I'm not saying the people are the opposite of what you think of them, I'm saying you should really get to know someone before you really decide if you want to be their friend. You never know, people may surprise you. I know I was surprised a few times. I know this is a message most people think they already know but I don't think many people actually do this. They may claim they do but they really don't or at least the people I have seen don't. I think it is something we should all do more often though. Thank you for your time. And if you were wondering who Blake Bliss is I'll show you one of his Videos: Blake Bliss-Beyond Bliss(Day24) <<< It is amazing, you can click it to see it. CLICK IT!

Why Teenagers DON'T tell their parents everything

Just to tell anyone who may not know. If you haven't read my blog before I am a teenager and I know this title may not apply to everyone's parents but in most cases it does. Parents say they want to know everything but what they don't know is that parents, like children, have to gain trust. If a child tells their parent something and they flip out on them instead of talking to them rationally or if they handle simply situations poorly children won't be comfortable telling their parents things. This applies to any topic or field of conversation. If they are trying to tell you they are dating someone you don't like and you flip out, they will carry that into other topics such as drugs and peer pressure as well. In my case my mother never seems to really care about the words that escape my lips. I will tell her about an celebrity idol I have and she never seems to care or really listen. I remember that and just decide not to tell her things. Not just things about my idols but also things about what happen to me in my day to day life. For example, who I'm dating and things that happened that day even if they are important. And its not because I have anything to hide, it is because well she didn't want to know about me then and she probably won't now either. Another place where parents need to let children speak is during arguments. Most parents get mad and just basically tell their children to shut up when actually they may have some valid points that you didn't think of. Parents need to understand that they are only human to and that their children have a good level of intelligence as well. Despite what parents might think you didn't teach them EVERY thing they know so you don't know everything about them, no matter how much it is you know.

My Excuses

I know I haven't posted and it seems like forever to me as well. You may be like Bleh! I don't care but I do, Anyway I was on vacation for a week. After that I had to keep my "cult" (I know weird thing to call it) on Vampire Freaks, going. It is actually very active despite the fact I only have like 6 people who actually post. I'm also very proud of the progress my blog has made in my absence and I will try mu best not to be absent anymore. Mostly because this is my favorite one of my blogs. I'm also planning on writing something called Writing is an Escape. It shouldn't be to long because I have a minor case of A.D.D or something and my train of thought seems to get off track a lot... Then again it could just be all that crap about today's youth and T.V/Video Games/ Computers... I'm not quite sure. Back to the point, I'M BACK! And though I don't really know who the people are that read this because I don't stalk my views... Though it does seem like they give you the choice somehow... I'm not that skilled. Anyway, back on topic. I'm back and I've missed writing very much. And if you are viewing... Thank you so much for your support! You're the best!